This is a beautiful text published in Page 12 .
Learning from their own character, "Bean", the author warns about the relationship as "toxic" to "reduce the power of acting" contrary to "good meetings that produce happy feelings." Of those relationships is better flee, because, quoting Bean, "the flight is not a disease but a science."
play in my Bean, the protagonist is a micro-strategist that lets you express to live. He realizes he has to select the relationships in your life: relationships doses, the time spent to make it operational live as they want, allowing you to live with power. The "flight" allows you to design a meaning to his life. Are existential foundations.
had a philosophy of life and developed a series of ideas unintelligible to those around him, that he was perceived as a stranger, as being elusive and unattainable. Some branded him schizophrenic, others from serious phobic. Only a physician close to him began to perceive that his bizarre behavior had a level of intelligibility, and decided to follow it investigate the strange philosophy of life that Beans and turned to the subject of scientific research. Beans
He confided certain phrases that were part of his thought-Decalogue, he said, and that Dr. Guillermo Ballesteros and called the doctor, kept as a relic.
play in my Bean, the protagonist is a micro-strategist that lets you express to live. He realizes he has to select the relationships in your life: relationships doses, the time spent to make it operational live as they want, allowing you to live with power. The "flight" allows you to design a meaning to his life. Are existential foundations.
had a philosophy of life and developed a series of ideas unintelligible to those around him, that he was perceived as a stranger, as being elusive and unattainable. Some branded him schizophrenic, others from serious phobic. Only a physician close to him began to perceive that his bizarre behavior had a level of intelligibility, and decided to follow it investigate the strange philosophy of life that Beans and turned to the subject of scientific research. Beans
He confided certain phrases that were part of his thought-Decalogue, he said, and that Dr. Guillermo Ballesteros and called the doctor, kept as a relic.
Decalogue
Beans Beans The Decalogue consists of the following 14 formula:
- I have no despair, only daily invention.
- Every morning you have to invent the day.
- Do not kill me because I know I have the amazing freedom to do so at any time (Sentence awarded to the Romanian philosopher Cioran and that he took as their own).
- Life is a huge departure and must be trained every day.
- We must learn to endure not one, not even the parents themselves.
- You have to wonder yourself.
- No need to learn to communicate, but learn to escape in time.
- Life is beautiful only if one learns to select moments.
- Life itself is not interesting only if we can design attractive every day.
- A lot of people sick and poisoning us. It is a science to discover the toxicity in humans.
- Be careful not to get sucked into any face or any theory, the metric is a fundamental science.
- must select the right thing to do to survive.
- The flight is not a disease: it is a true science should be taught from childhood to escape quickly from the idiocy.
- Learn to create bubbles of isolation. Designing these bubbles to always carry hand (Deleuzian concept, which he called himself).
Bean had designed the time he could stand without intoxication in regular conversations with people who crossed daily:
- Goalkeeper: two seconds.
- Your mother: one minute 10 seconds.
- His father: one minute 14 seconds.
- Pedro (casual friend with who was in the Floresta station): 10 seconds and three quarters.
- His uncle Myth: a second.
- Miss Golden (English teacher): 20 minutes.
- Alsace (prostitute who frequented): one hour.
- His girlfriend Serafina: four periods of two minutes with one minute breaks.
The flight time saves us from the crap we endure from others.
Bean had made a trip to Greenland (where he was very happy.) From there he wrote:
"People are here permanently standing barely sit. There are almost no seats in the meetings. Discrete minimal movement and allowed to depart from the others. As a result, people feel more free than having to get up painfully somewhere. The join would be a notification of the intention to move away. They move freely and can, as they are standing away permanently, without much ceremony and go the other way when they please. Nothing is flashy and nobody would feel offended. The advantage of always standing as nobody is offended, they can go to a place where he pleases and without explanation. Fewer patients with resentment and digestive diseases. A world free.
"I lost much time in the chairs, my friend!
"Whoever stands expresses grandeur and independence and who sits expressed weight and durability.
"On the squat, is one that has broken away from men, not imposed on anyone, rests in itself.
"A big hug to everyone. I stay here indefinitely.
"PS: Many things will not see them not to hear, do not let it bring us closer. Separate, move away from that to which it would need to say no again and again.
"I love you, Serafina. From here you want. We would both so happy here! "
(A year ago that Bean did not write.)
Dr. Guillermo Ballesteros, the coroner, and his collaborators began to realize that the problem of toxicity of human relations was at less meritorious. Agreed on the possibility of creating bubbles of isolation against idiocy. And began to realize how much time they spent in their daily conversations and toxic idiots. Even
Ballesteros came to think as Deligny (Romanian psychiatrist living in Paris) on the relationship between toxicity and mental illness. Bean himself was
references to American Psychiatry in the American yuppies suffering from a new psychological syndrome: the schizoaffective why abruptly stopped feeling emotional world around them, and Bean stated that this flight affective or withdrawal the world was the only chance to escape in time of the robot for which the medium had trained. It was a humanizing withdrawal. Preservation flight to return to the emotional world differently. Inventing. Ingeniando.
No one had the impression of being with someone outside the trial, but a person who was traveling in another dimension, in other possible spaces. Bean is a hero of the micropolitics of resistance. A hero who was conceived by questioning and challenging the postmodern. Bean is the hero who knows how you looked, above all, never lose the ability to move that seems to be their greatest expression of freedom: that which does not plan to deliver in any respect (the escape and resistance in liquid modernity, Ezequiel Gusneroti).
The term "bubble of isolation seems to be, according to Bean, which arose from a suggestion at a meeting held in Paris with Gilles Deleuze, in September 1980, in that conversation, Deleuze Bean had taken that concept. Then
Deleuze modified the word "vacuole" to "bubble", according to disguise the plagiarism Beans. Dr. Ballesteros ignored the great French philosopher and could never prove it. All he could see is that on that date Bean had traveled to Paris.
Serafina, Bean's girlfriend, knew of his trip to Paris, told him to back a French philosopher stole their ideas and so had hastened his return trip.
One day, Bean told the doctor Guillermo Ballesteros sick when we do not make good combinations and we get stuck with people who make sadness or melancholy, and this reduces our power to act. Most people hold these relationships because they lack the awareness to set limits and run of the plant pathology. Break down your body with the other and too sick to stay in these toxic situations that lead to psychosomatic disorders. On the contrary, there are good matches with joyful affects production, which increase the power of acting. Good combinations, Dr. Ballesteros. Should be able to combine well, as you and me.
Horror is sad affects remain manufacturing and lose the ability or power to act. My flight
resistencial micro-mi-is to flee in time of toxicity that affects the body as it decomposes in unhappy relationships.
Everything is a problem of dose-connection relationships, not links or relationships. Flee in time is preserved of idiocy and lack of passion.
But this is not mine: it is pure Spinoza. I suggest you not read because it is very difficult. Dr. Ballesteros
was not offended, he bought the Ethics of Spinoza and did not understand anything. Medical training is too specific to understand this type of theoretical concepts.
Bean is a fictional character. But I found the clinic through the years, his eccentric ideas have at its core raison d'ĂȘtre. Its meaning.
I think many people sick bad because it combines with another person and is prone to get sick to stay with that person for years. Many believe them psychosomatic illnesses attributable to these relationships. People do not think
toxicity that comes between them and can not, according to the philosophy of Bean-flee in time.
I think sometimes lengthy analysis hurting some patients for this reason, creating iatrogenic events (of which little talking).
Recently a 32 year old girl wanted to enter a therapy group and I ask how long it had been addressed in any previous psychotherapy. "I started at 16 years with an analyst, social and sexual inhibitions and still continuing with it." I pointed out that discussions had taken half of his life. "Twice a week," he replied. He said that the early years had been helped by the therapist, but later the ratio had bogged down and could not quit. He did not helped and stayed seven years more, creating a toxic relationship, had developed a great friendship, but creativity does not exist in her or him. "Go to therapy caused me sadness. I did not dare to leave. Why I'm here, I want to be with people and listen to other problems. Share and resonate with other people. "
Bean would have advised" run on time "and leave their extensive analysis because the psychotherapeutic relationship became a toxic relationship and sad where she lost her power of acting. In its early years had achieved good results. Analyzed rather than to live, she lived to be analyzed. I understand that professional
-analysts, psychologists can perform analysis because our profession long requires special training. I analyzed 15 years or more. But people who go to my groups have an average of 15 years of analysis or other previous therapy. Some are accountants, other teachers, employees, employers, far away from the profession psi.
is good to realize that we must learn to "run" time on the toxicity of some relationships that cause us grief and make us lose power to act.
In this case, the flight is a therapeutic act, says Bean.
In our everyday life we \u200b\u200bperceive that there are relationships which give us joy, we become more creative and new passions. And there are other relationships where we do not combine and "think wrong." This sadness. Loss of consciousness of this last link as the production of symptoms is of great importance.
The ability of people to remain in situations "idiots" is immeasurable. The ability of people who do not flee in time for this type of relationship is sometimes inconceivable.
Throughout my life, I have met intelligent people who gradually lost his creativity, power and passion for being linked to toxic relationships.
Bean said that good people is often dangerous because of its toxicity. In my personal case, I have had toxic relationships and have had the opportunity to "run" on time "following his philosophy on many occasions. A Bean was appalled
any type of hermeneutics as possible. He would say things are well and one choice: to stay or flee in time. It is a conscious existential choice.
Something similar to what Foucault said when referring to that, before reaching the unconscious, we must perceive the "dirty little secrets" of people. It is a mindset that invites reflection. Dr. Guillermo Ballesteros
do some work in Argentina Psychiatric Association that was titled "The flight and therapeutic act." But the flight was generally interpreted as defensive phobic and not as an act of preservation.
Bean also criticized the work of Dr. Ballesteros because they considered it inappropriate to discuss it with psychiatrists.
Shortly thereafter, he was invited to France to develop their experience with actors and mathematicians (who are very interested in your theory.) Even today it remains in Greenland with his girlfriend Serafina. He wrote his book in two volumes The flight and existential therapeutic act (which is now in its third edition).
0 comments:
Post a Comment